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Frisky Friday - Injuries and Sex

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Having just pulled my upper right oblique while in a sneezing fit, I figured out what to write about today. Sex while injured.

Now, obviously this needs to be more of a tender rather than wild adventure, but injury doesn't have to take sex off the table.

With many position options available, there is surely one or two out there that could be modified to allow for a good time and help one forget about the pain for a little while.

Doggy-style would hurt right now, but may be doable on a different plain. My legs are fine, so if he was sitting in a chair, we could probably make it work.

Missionary with a pillow supporting my back might work too. Here are some suggestions I came across while looking it up.

And if there are other challenges due to size, weight, etc then it might be more difficult to find a good position, but it's out there.

There are many in the kama sutra.

If sex itself is painful, it could be a lack of lube, residual emotional trauma, Vaginismus, Sjogren's Syndrome, PCOS, or a dozen other things. There's help out there if you're brave enough to go looking for the cause.

Don't give up on your dreams ;)

Guid cheerio the nou*,
R~

*I'm reclaiming my Scottish roots.

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