When Bad Things Happen

I received some disheartening news today.

Someone I knew has been found guilty of having an inappropriate sexual relationship with one of their high school students.

It's possible this person is suffering from mental illness, but does that excuse any part of their behaviour?

Mature adults know better. Even if they have feelings for someone, they know not to pursue it. They don't act on those feelings.

But this person took action.

Those of us that know them are in shock.

I'm wondering if there were signs there that I should have seen.

I'm also wondering if anyone ever really knows anyone else.

Ciao,
R~

2024 - Week 5

It was still January for most of this week, a.k.a. The Neverending Month. Then it became February! Each month, I do pull a card from my Music Oracles deck. Last month was Bob Marley. February's card is Nina Simone. A piano playing rebel & multiple genre legend will hopefully make for a phenomenal month ahead. I still haven't done a goals post for 2024. January was a lot. My goals for this year are: - Complete Sparker and query agents. - Complete The Curse of... and submit it to a screenplay contest. - Complete the declutter of Tiny Condo. - Blog at least once per week. - Cross train for curling and softball. - Learn piano. - Self-care with crafts, reading, gaming, and sports. I've tweaked my schedule to make this happen. I'd also like a partner, but I feel weird about setting it as a goal.

Frisky Friday - Maple Syrup Porn

[caption id="attachment_10523" align="alignright" width="300"] Image created using Bitmoji[/caption] While delving into some Canadian film history this week, I learned that there is a thing called Maple Syrup Porn. I laughed when I read the term. I thought, "Is our adult film industry really called Maple Syrup Porn?" It's not. Some is Canadian, but it mostly refers to getting around censorship of sex. It was not only common in Quebec due to religion, but several places in the US. You can read more about it here . If you're looking to heat things up this weekend, consider a sweet old film from the early days of the sexual revolution. Maybe even drizzle a little syrup on your partner ;) Guid cheerio the nou, R~

2025 Goals Post

Image by Mohamed Hassan on Pixabay. The theme I have chosen for 2025 is: No Bullshit My goals for 2025 are to: 1. Continue making my condo more cozy and comfortable through decluttering and home projects. - Bookshelf Modification - Entranceway Refresh - Fix the leaky tap in the kitchen - Doors - Bedroom Closet Opening 2. Write more. - Cyberfunk 3000 - Sparker - Blog at least once weekly 3. Read more. 4. Make more time for music through learning, performing, and concerts. - Choir - Fender Play - Ableton - Music theory course 5. Continue my fitness journey. - Softball - Curling - Tap dance - Skating - Walking - Fitness Challenges 6. Continue walking the druidic path through spiritual studies and research with the goal of achieving a Bard level. 7. Take a trip. 8. Continue improving my drawing skills and complete some crafting projects. - Procreate course - Fairy Cross-Stitch - Wolf Cross-Stitch - Summer Quilt - Goth Quilt - Kiki's Magic Emporium Miniature Kit - En...

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